What I am going to share with you is a real experience of a very good friend of mine. Some time back, when I met a friend of mine; I got to know something that I had heard about but not experienced so closely. I was taken aback when my friend said that he is feeling
depressed because of the comments the he received on Facebook. These were the party pictures taken by another friend of mine. They both were colleges as well in an international company.
depressed because of the comments the he received on Facebook. These were the party pictures taken by another friend of mine. They both were colleges as well in an international company.
The pictures I am talking about were little close with the lady boss and you also would agree that people are just looking for opportunities to pull you down after the party is over. Even if you are at fault or no, people done have the authority to abuse you. But, social platforms have done a lot of good at the same time some drawbacks also. Let’s see how we can overcome these drawbacks.
1. Don’t think of giving it back
If you are thinking of giving it back to the person commenting on you, would be a bad idea, because you never know the person may turn even uglier. So, instead of bouncing back, stay calm. If you don’t react the attacker might get frustrated, as you are not entertaining him.
2. Be Polite in your Response
If the comment is from your friend, you can be polite and let them know that you didn’t like it being in public so, it would be great if he could delete it from his end. Sometimes, being polite works and reacting strongly can worsen the case.
3. Being Witty
Even still some people have the habit of nagging others. Just laugh it out, so the people reading keeping an eye on the comments on your account will also take it in a good humor. When the comments are ugly people take serious interest in it but if it’s light people forget it and leave it.
4. Be in Touch With All
In case you have a business site and getting bugged by your competitor’s unfavorable comments you just need a proactive thought process.
Here, you may use SMM tool, it will keep you updated of what is happening around you, about you. If you can keep a track of the brand mentions, negative spam posted on many forums for you can be avoided. Not only that, if you know that the remarks and comments posted by someone are forged you can prove it with proof and contact the site admin. If this keeps happening with you, they will consider your case and delete those comments. But, it you don’t have any option to get it removed, you can anytime be polite to cool it off.
These days managing status online is not that easy task because there are many things that you need to consider. Apart from the SMM issue you also need to focus on other critical aspects like the issue solving time, response time, also the customer’s rating.
In the time of the problem getting sever when you are unable to handle it, you may just shut it down and relax for some time. Chill out, and discuss it with your friends. Don’t sit alone and let it haunt you. Even you can change your account on a personal level. But yes, professionally you don’t have any such options. There you can be ignorant if being polite doesn’t work.
I would like to know from you. What do you do in such a situation? Or you what would you suggest your friends, how to cope with it?